We all want.

We all want health, wealth, name, fame, money, wisdom, growth, opportunities and so on in our life. But how many of us want challenges, problems, difficulties, sorrows and defeat in our life. I think nothing; nobody wants any of these things in his /her life. But why? The simple answer is that, nobody wants sadness and sorrow in his/her life. Actually, they want only happiness. People want to be only happy. They only want health, wealth, name, fame and money. They just want to fulfill their all desires. But just think, what happened if all desires will be fulfilled, nothing would be left. I don’t know why we don’t understand that, the only unfinished desire has such a driving force, which force to us to do something more to fulfill our uncompleted desire, we should understand that every thing has two aspects, either it will be or not, either you will be get success or not, either you will be happy or not, either you will fulfill your desire or not. But knowingly or unknowingly, we don’t want to see the other aspect of life. Whether, it’s a truth of life.

Today, I learnt a great lesson of life. Never be afraid with failure, try to learn something new with this. Failure is just one more step to reach in front of your success. If you see the history of world, you will find that every invention or discovery just not happened in once a time or all of a sudden. In every success behind there is great history of failure. In simple words, you can say that every successful man/woman has tasted to failure many times in his/her life. That’s the way he/she got success. I think success is not an Aim; it’s just a way in which you have to do continuously do growth. Once, I was watching a T.V. serial “Apki Adalat” in which Anupam Kher was interviewed by some one, the words said by Anupam Kher is really affect a deep impact on my heart. What he said, he said that, “we never try to always celebrate our win; we should also try to celebrate our defeat, because both are the part of life and nobody can always win”. If honestly, I would speak, what I think that we can learn more with our defeats in comparisons of our wins. This nice story will tell us how these things happened:

This is a story about a famous research scientist who had made several very important medical breakthroughs. He was being interviewed by a newspaper reporter who asked him why he thought he was able to be so much more creative than the average person. What set him so far apart from others?

He responded that, in his opinion, it all came from an experience with his mother that occurred when he was about two years old. He had been trying to remove a bottle of milk from the refrigerator when he lost his grip on the slippery bottle and it fell, spilling its contents all over the kitchen floor—a veritable sea of milk!
When his mother came into the kitchen, instead of yelling at him, giving him a lecture, or punishing him, she said, "Robert, what a great and wonderful mess you have made! I have rarely seen such a huge puddle of milk. Well, the damage has already been done. Would you like to get down and play in the milk for a few minutes before we clean it up?"
Indeed, he did. After a few minutes, his mother said, "You know, Robert, whenever you make a mess like this, eventually you have to clean it up and restore everything to its proper order. So, how would you like to do that? We could use a sponge, a towel, or a mop. Which do you prefer?" He chose the sponge and together they cleaned up the spilled milk.
His mother then said, "You know, what we have here is a failed experiment in how to effectively carry a big milk bottle with two tiny hands. Let's go out in the back yard and fill the bottle with water and see if you can discover a way to carry it without dropping it." The little boy learned that if he grasped the bottle at the top near the lip with both hands, he could carry it without dropping it. What a wonderful lesson!
This renowned scientist then remarked that it was at that moment that he knew he didn't need to be afraid to make mistakes. Instead, he learned that mistakes were just opportunities for learning something new, which is, after all, what scientific experiments are all about. Even if the experiment "doesn't work," we usually learn something valuable from it.